
RABBI STEPHEN EPSTEIN
רבי שמואל בן-יהושע
A MODERN CONSERVATIVE RABBI
Rabbi at Temple Sholom of Ontario
Serving San Bernardino and Riverside Counties, CA and all of Southern California
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- This week's D'var Torah
https://youtu.be/zeg5qedEXLU #ParashaEmor #DvarTorah
- Friday Night's Sermon: Why no Torah readings on Friday Night?
The issue came up recently about changing the Friday night service to include a mini-Torah service. This was postulated since we typically do not get a minyan Saturday morning for the Shabbat Shachrit service and therefore do not typically take out the Torah. There are reasons why, with a few exceptions, Torah services are typically conducted in the morning. When the Second Temple was destroyed, and our people scattered in exile, the rabbis developed our services based on the sacrifices that were conducted. There were prayers and psalms that were recited, but the main focus were the sacrifices. The rabbis wanted Judaism to continue until such time as we rebuilt the Temple and either resumed the sacrifices or enacted another appropriate program based on whatever divine inspiration or prophecy was given by HaShem. The morning service was the main service of the day. The animals were prepared, the altar was cleaned, ashes from the previous day were removed, the incense was set up, the menorah was checked to make sure there was enough oil. Later on in the day, typically towards dusk, there was another, lesser sacrifice. Many rabbis, in fact, will wait until about half an hour before sundown to daven Minchah. No sacrifices were conducted at night because typically there was enough food left over. Consequently, when we were left without a Temple, the morning service was designed to replicate that process. Many Orthodox Jews when davening the Shachrit service will typically include portions from Torah that discussed the process of sacrifice, incense and setting up the menorah. This is the vicarious way of complying with those particular Torah commandments. We remember the three prayer services as originating from the Patriarchs. Abraham originated the Shachrit service, Isaac the Minchah and Jacob the Ma’ariv. This was the pattern of the Temple services and the Ma’ariv was typically short and of course included the Shema and its blessings. The sages disagreed about designing and even including the Ma’ariv service. Some suggested it either not be done or optional since there was no corresponding sacrifice. Others felt that since it was implied by Torah it should be included. They compromised, ultimately and said, yes, it should be done, but there would be no repetition of Amidah and thus there is no Kedushah as part of it. Since the Shachrit service was the main service of the day, this is when we do the Torah service and when we wear a tallit with the tzitzit. There are two exceptions to this. The Shabbat Minchah (Afternoon) service is a shortened Torah service with three aliyot. This was enacted by the prophet Ezra to make sure that people observing Shabbat had something to do and wouldn’t have free time and be tempted to break Shabbat. Some people will wear a tallit for that service especially if they’re being called up to the Torah. The second exception is Yom Kippur afternoon; this is a very holy day, similar in holiness to Shabbat, and therefore we have an afternoon Torah service for the sanctity of the day. We do not wear a tallit for other Minchah services not any Ma’ariv services. The one exception is Erev Yom Kippur, again due to the holiness of the day. In fact, most Jews do not wear tzitzit at night either with a tallit or the small tzitzit. This is because the third paragraph of the “V’Ahavta” states, “when you look at them”, and at night it’s dark and we typically cannot see. This may bring up the question, why do we say the V’Ahavta at night if we don’t carry out that particular commandment? This is because we’re commanded to say, but given the circumstances, again according to our sages, only wear them during the time of the day when we are able to see them. Of course, we can study Torah any time of the day. The formal readings, however, is only done as per the aforementioned times. It is important, then, that we devote that time during Shabbat to join with other Jews in forming a minyan and participate in a Torah service. Consider that it is by divine design that we need at least ten. Yes, it may be an inconvenience, but it compels us to come together as a community. People often quote, in appropriate context, that it takes a village. So too with Torah. In coming together during that special time, we are a community. We support each and be with each other. This is how we’ve survived for so long and under the most challenging times. Many references to that are found in Torah. We are commanded to help someone who is destitute by offering them interest-free loans; we allow the vulnerable and underprivileged to help themselves to our gleanings; we see someone on the side of the road struggling with their beast of burden, we assist them. So too do we assist each other in our spiritual journey as we evolve spiritually.
- This week's Commentary on Torah Portion "Acherei_Mot-Kedoshim"
https://youtu.be/_EvBdikmLSc
- Parasha Tazria-Metzora: This week's D'var Torah
https://youtu.be/NND_6k2xEx4
- This week's D'var Torah.
https://youtu.be/zK3OiCYQ5fY
- This week's D'var Torah: Passover 8th day Shabbat
https://youtu.be/HgGN2q91ht8
- Commentary on this week's special Torah Portion for Pesach/Shabbat
https://youtu.be/BEkKMSa8g0Y
- Torah and Business: Friday Night's Sermon
When people think of Judaism, they think of it in the context of a religion. That congers up impressions of what G-d wants us to do to serve him. We think of things like praying and observing our holidays. We think of giving to charity, which foods are forbidden, and of course observing Shabbat. Aside from the rites and rituals, Judaism also places a lot of importance on behavior. Hashem also expects us to engage in righteous behavior in our interactions with others in the secular world. Let’s look at how we are to behave in business. There are numerous commandments that tell us how to behave during commerce. As an example, consider the saying, “Let the buyer beware”. Nothing could be farther from the tenets of Judaism. Hashem requires us to do exactly the opposite. We are commanded “[do] not put a stumbling block in front of the blind”. The literal meaning of this is obvious, but it also refers to not hiding information and making sure that everybody has all the information they need to make a proper decision during a business deal. This way, a fair decision can be made. Similar to this is the admonition to make sure weights and measures are accurate. People should get the amount for what they pay. In adjudicating cases, a judge should judge a torts case fairly without any bias or preference. An example is given that in a case involving a poor man and a rich man, the judge should not favor the poor man thinking that the rich man won’t miss the money, but the poor man may be severely impacted by an adverse ruling. Probably one of the major issues dealt with in Torah is real estate. Upon entering the promised land, land was divided up among the tribes, clans and Israelites. Everybody had a share in owning and working some land. Different people had different experiences, however. Some thrived while others struggled. Some got into such dire straits that they had to sell their land work for someone else. There was a stipulation in Torah. During the Jubilee year (50th year), all land returns their ancestral owners. So it’s like the family getting a 2nd chance to make good. The main reason for such a law is so that a few doesn’t end up all the means of production in the land and thus have a disproportionate amount of power and influence through their riches. Compare that to today…. The moral of the story? Hashem wants to make everything fair. These laws would, theoretically anyway, make scoundrels think twice before trying to take advantage of people. As a segue, let’s also consider what would make someone want to violate the idea of fair trade and honesty. Consider the character of someone who cheats. It’s weak, plain and simple. Someone who has to cheat doesn’t have a lot of confidence that either they’re going to get a fair deal or just wants their way so badly that they will bend the rules of engagement to make sure they win. They’re will to play the game but wants to hold all the cards. Perhaps these people know that they’re cheating but they think that they have either some sort of entitlement that overrules anybody else’s share or they think they’re right and must win at all costs. The end justifies the means. Someone who is strong plays by the rules because they have confidence in their ability to deliver their side of the deal and is willing to do what it takes to make good. These people trust in their own capability and are willing to accept the outcome. They also have the integrity to realize that business dealings should be fair and many don’t even think to cheat. Engaging in fair business practices instills trust. People are more willing to extend themselves. When there is a history or the pall of mistrust, people hesitate to effect deals. Less business gets done, everybody loses. We all know that sometimes, subterfuge works. Some people are very good at deceiving and then covering up their tracks. But as is said in the Sabbath Psalm, “[T]heir doom is sure to come, because Yours is the ultimate triumph.” And we’ve seen in the business world how people who deceive people ultimately are found out and end up with consequences. Sometimes it takes a little longer but in the end, “they are routed”. The problem with bad business practices is that they’re not grounded in reality, so reality does not support their actions. They have to keep covering up their tracks until eventually everything explodes, and the truth comes out. This is the interesting thing about life. Most, if not all, of us have experienced situations that were unfair. We’ve had to deal with someone in a position of power who is misusing their position. We know that they are being willful and it both angers and frustrates us. What is more frustrating is the powerlessness we feel at the hands of a dictator. In the case, the best course of action is to stay true to our morals. Many of us during those times have probably considered being deceitful ourselves, asking why we are being so ethical when others aren’t. Again, “, “[T]heir doom is sure to come, because Yours is the ultimate triumph.” We also have to consider how we would feel giving up our integrity and succumbing to sin. So always be true to yourselves even when others aren’t. Ultimately, you will prevail.
- Parashah Tzav: D'var Torah on this week's portion
https://youtu.be/O3cmhMehjSY
- Parasha Vayikra: This week's Torah Commentary
https://youtu.be/CXEgMX1-fSI
- Parasha Vayekhel_Pekudei
Commentary on this week's Torah Portion. Enjoy! https://youtu.be/8zwWry2hiE0
- Parasha Ki Tisa: Commentary on this week's Torah Portion
https://youtu.be/4r4nqbqROXc
